Make-up, wearing makeup and self-esteem

Make-up is only a decoration… NOT a necessity. Unfortunately many women wear make-up and consider themselves ugly without it. Turning make up into a daily and clown-like ritual only makes women feel insecure and can really ruin their self-esteem. 
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Women who wear make up to feel better need to remember they are Human beings Not objects. Don't be fooled by the non-sense the sales people on TV commercials tell You ... NO ONE needs make up to attract a good man. You just need to be a good person. 
Example: I'm a good man and the last few Female friends didn't wear any makeup when I first met them and approached them. Just know that You were NOT born with Makeup on so you don't neet it ... I personally think that only Actors and Actresses need makeup to emphasize the feelings they are trying to portray.
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It's important to remember that true beauty is not found in superficialities but in who someone is. Sure, most people will say, "but men want a gorgeous women and blaa blaa blaa". That's true but if someone only likes you when you're wearing make up... they have mental problems are are way to shallow to understand what true love is. Being so superficial isn't only bad for you... its bad for society.

Lies and make up

You don't need to wear tons of make-up to attract men. Men who only like women because of their physical traits are a little crazy anyway. Sure, Liking someone who is considered physically attractive is a natural part of life and of all our natural animal instinct but there's no need to lie to people regarding what you really look like. Will the lies ever end? Is it pleasant to live a lie?

Even though it's completely natural to want to "look" attractive there are many other ways to do that with out wearing tons make-up.

Being beautiful

Being beautiful has nothing to do with putting lots of gunk on your face to resemble some plastic doll. Make up is an occasional decoration NOT a beauty enhancement since being beautiful has nothing to do with physical appearance. Beauty is about being a good person (Yes, it sounds corny but it's very true).  

Well, the only good time to wear a lot of make-up is on Halloween or if you work in a circus. Those are the only good exceptions. When women fall into the horrible delusion that they NEED make up to be attractive or wear it to feel beautiful it totally destroys their self esteem ( subconsciously and some times it creeps into your conscious mind). The effect is usually a sense of discomfort that leads to all kinds of problems that stem from thinking that make-up is a need.

Make up and self consciousness

Make-up usually throws women into a pit of insecurity, confusion, and even self-loathing (even if they're not really aware of it). Well, men who are attracted to women who wear a lot of make up are attracted to them out of pure animal instinct. Men who act purely out of physical attraction treat women as sex toys, trophies and personal property. It’s okay if you're into that sort of thing but most women aren't. I don’t think that women should dedicate their lives to attract some guy who only likes them for what they look like and not who they are. It’s sad indeed.

True beauty enhancement

True beauty comes when you are find inner peace, solve problems and live a life that is harmonious with your surroundings. After you become a good person you will radiate attractive and healthy energy that will bring good people in your life and keeps psychos away. Eventually this beauty will fill your life and you won't have that desperate desire to attract men because you will find happiness and good people will find their way into your life or you will find them.

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